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  • Name: Barb
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July 17 1989

19 years ago on July 17th 1989, 2 families lives were changed forever.
My daughter received a new kidney, just 2 weeks shy of her 4th birthday.
Today she is 23, an actor/playwright/drama teacher with her whole life ahead of her.
She is also very much in love and has just come home from living for a year with her playwright boyfriend in London. They will now spend the next year writing and staging their shows in Canada.

Sadly, also on that day 19 years ago, a very young boy named Brian Frey died, and my daughter received his kidney.
He was about 2.

I think a lot about all that my daughter would not be without her transplant.
All of the joyous and triumphant moments we've had over the past 19 years that are astoundingly far too numerous to note or even remember.
We have been so very blessed!

But, I know there is another family out there thinking at this time of all that they have lost........ and I am so grateful and very humbled that in their time of grief, they saved my child's life.

If you are reading this, in honour of everyone you hold dear and especially for anyone you have lost...... please hug your loved ones and say a little prayer if you are so inclined, for Brian's family.

Thanks for indulging me!
Barb
XOXO

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Art washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life.
~ Picasso

art by blond


Overlooking the Park - 2006
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Fireworks - 2004
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Inferno - 2004
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Bright Lights - 2005
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Falling Leaves - 2005
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*UPDATE - Aug '08
One year since diagnosis, and I am cancer-free!
Cancer picked the WRONG bitch.
Yep.




Art is the elimination of the unnecessary
~Picasso

In Memorium


Peace, Sara.
Jan 19, 1985 - July 27, 2005



Sara's Song - 2006

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*UPDATE - Mar '08

The surgery went well, and I shall spend the next couple of weeks driving Ken bat-shit-crazy with all of my
'I'm-so-helpless' demands!

Cheers!
B
XO




*UPDATE - Feb '08
Hello friends....

I am having a second mastectomy on Feb 27 '08 as a precautionary measure.
I could use all of the positive thoughts and prayers you can muster.
Good wishes on my behalf will so not go to waste, jes' sayin'
t.i.a

Barb
XO

*UPDATE! - Nov '07
My best friend and I have BOTH KICKED CANCER'S ASS! BooYAH!!!


*Aug. '07
SO, I have Breast Cancer.
My best friend has cancer, too.
Life's like that, sometimes.
All you can do is put your head down, plough though, and hope for the best.




Feverishly attacking midlife blahs and empty nest syndrome with paint. Lots and lots of paint.

Not-so-naturally ( anymore ) blond wife, mom, daughter, sister, aunt, friend, movie critic, family film maker, artist, writer, reader, shower stall singer, gardener, pop culture enthusiast
So not a chef or even a fair housekeeper
Lover of whales and chimpanzees
Kid friendly sensitive perky ambitious Canadian Barbie stage mother of the very worst kind.
You betcha.




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    aussichick

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    07/12/08



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    she314

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    07/02/08

    Glad everything is going so well for you!! image

    Hope you have a great summer!!


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    she314

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    06/26/08

    Hi Barb! Hope all is well image

    We talked about going up that way, but we're not sure we can pull it off as of now. Plane tix are pretty high, etc. The failing economy scares the crap outta me, so we may have to dedicate this summer to staying local. Sucks big time. I'll let you know if plans change though. Time to start playing the lottery, I guess image


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    06/26/08

    Reply from 1blond:

    I'm good. Pretty darned good. "Good" being a relative term, natch! But all is well, and I am painting again. Finally. My babies are home. Life is returning to normal. "Normal" being a relative term, natch! ssts Totally understand on the staying home this summer thing. Will miss you, none-the-less! XO
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    memyselfand1

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    06/23/08

    My wife is hanging in and I'm glad to hear you are too.

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    memyselfand1

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    06/17/08

    hey ya blondie!! How you doing?

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    06/22/08

    Reply from 1blond:

    I'm OK. Getting there. You know. How are you? I think about you and your wife every so often, and hope all is as well as can be expected!
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    Dropping off a lovely fountain for you. image

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    she314

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    05/27/08

    I'd love to visit you guys again some day image

    Hope you're having a great trip, and feel better soon!!

    <3


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    Shanee

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My Hobbies

Painting, pontificating, watching way too much TV, annoying my kids, going to movies, and reading....not necessarily in that order.